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Brian Johnson, Philosopher & CEO of Zaadz, a company merging spirituality, capitalism and technology to change
the world by inspiring and empowering people to live at their
highest potential while using their greatest strengths in the
greatest service to the world.
“Some believe there is nothing one man or one woman can do against the enormous
array of the world’s ills – against misery, against ignorance,
or injustice and violence. Yet many of the world’s great movements,
of thought and action, have flowed from the work of a single man.
A young monk began the Protestant reformation, a young general
extended an empire from Macedonia to the borders of the earth,
and a young woman reclaimed the territory of France. It was a
young Italian explorer who discovered the New World, and 32 year
old Thomas Jefferson who proclaimed that all men are created equal.
‘Give me a place to stand,’ said Archimedes, ‘and I will move
the world.’ These men moved the world, and so can we all.”
Robert F. Kennedy, 20th century US political leader
If we--as enlightened
entrepreneurs--are going to change the world, we must start
with ourselves. We must strive to live at our highest potential
while
using our greatest strengths in the greatest service to the
world.
The classic Greek philosophers had a word for the process
of self-actualizing and striving to reach your highest potential.
They called it ‘Areté.’
(pronounced ar-uh-tay)
In fact, Areté was one of the most important values in classic
Greek culture. Guys like Socrates, Plato and Aristotle
taught that the meaning of life was happiness and that the way
to achieve happiness was to live with Areté (aka excellence,
striving to
reach your highest potential).
I believe that by looking at the universal truths taught
by philosophers, religions, and current psychological
research, we can find the
keys to self-actualizing, happiness and creating businesses
that can “move the world.”
With that, I offer you a quick overview of the universal
truths that I have discovered in the course of my
studies and that
I strive to apply in my life as I create Zaadz, Inc.
I hope you
enjoy.
“What one can be, one must be.”
Abraham Maslow, 20th century psychologist
“Your mind
will be like its habitual thoughts; for the soul
becomes dyed
with the color
of its thoughts. Soak it then in such trains of
thoughts as, for example: Where life is possible at all,
a
right life is
possible.”
Marcus Aurelius, 2nd century Roman emperor-(stoic)
philosopher
The Attitude Principle
It all begins with accountability. Unless you’re
willing to take absolute responsibility for
your life, there
is no hope.
Seriously.
If you’re going to blame a bad economy or
a bad childhood or bad whatever for your
problems, then
you won’t
come close to reaching
your potential. Sorry to break the news.
Having said that, if you’re willing to quit
being a victim and to start taking control
of how you
think about and
interact with
the world, then you’re on your way to doing
anything you set your mind to.
Open up The Dhammapada, the core text of
Buddha’s teachings. Flip to the first
lines. The very
first words are “Our
life is shaped
by our mind. We become what we think.”
That sums it up pretty well, eh?
And, scientists have done all kinds of
research on this. They talk about
“locus of control”—aka,
where
you place
control.
Do you put control outside of yourself
and have what they term an
“external locus of control”? Or,
do you take responsibility and have an “internal
locus
of control”?
Not surprisingly, you can test rats
and humans and you’ll find that,
to the extent
you place
control
outside of
yourself, you
will be significantly less happy,
less successful, less all the
things you
want to be, than
if you internalize control.
Philosophers have commented on
the subject exhaustively as
well—from ancient Greek
philosophers like
Epictetus to Buddha
to more recent
guys like James Allen and contemporary
gurus like Steven Covey. Of
course, we can’t always
control
what happens
in our lives,
but we can always control how
we
perceive and respond to what
happens. And,
oh, what a difference
that
makes.
“Man’s
ideal
state is realized when he
has fulfilled the purpose for which
he is
born.
And what is it that reason demands
of him? Something very easy—that
he live
in accordance
with his
own nature.”
Seneca, 1st century stoic
philosopher
The Vision Principle
Ok. You’ve assumed control.
No more whining from
you.
Now that you’ve taken
that step, what are
you going
to create
for yourself?
What’s
your ideal
life?
What’s the
ideal you?
What are you doing
on a daily basis? Who
are you around? How much money is
in your bank account? What
kind
of physical
shape are you
in? What do
you look like
and
feel like?
Sounds simple, eh?
Of course, it sounds
simple,
but in
my experience, people
have a pretty
hard time with
this because they
lack clarity in
terms of
who they are and what really fires
them up.
We’re so used to
doing what we
think other
people want us
to do that we
haven’t taken
the time
to truly understand
who we
are and
what
we want.
In short,
we lack self-awareness. We’ll
get you thinking more
about
what you want
and create a vision
of your ideal.
“Only by much
searching and
mining are
gold and diamonds
obtained, and
man can
find every
truth
connected
with
his being
if he will
dig deep into the mine of his
soul.”
James Allen, 19th century philosopher
The
Self-Awareness Principle
Self-awareness. Our third
step. Remember Socrates?
The Oracle
of Delphi in
ancient Greece? What
did they teach
us?
“Know thyself,” of course.
Well, how well do you
know thyself?
What are your greatest
strengths? What are you
most passionate
about? When
are you most
naturally
yourself?
What are
you most proud of?
What gives
you goosebumps?
If you were absolutely
guaranteed to succeed,
what one thing
would you dare to dream?!?
I can’t begin to stress
how important self-awareness
is. Again, all
kinds of scientific research
has been done on
this subject.
Psychologists
have
often wondered
why IQ isn’t that well
correlated
with success and happiness
in life and several
authors have explained
the keys to
what Robert Sternberg
calls
Successful Intelligence:
In its simplest form, he
says that the most successful
people
in
the world know their strengths
and know their weakness;
they create a life
around
their strengths
and spend enough time on
their weaknesses
so that they’re not liabilities.
Basically, they “know themselves.”
Martin Seligman, the past
President of the American
Psychological
Association, Professor
at Penn,
one of the most preeminent
psychologists alive and
the founder of the current
positive psychology
movement, recently wrote
a book called Authentic
Happiness. In it, he boils
down Aristotle’s good life
to a simple
formula (ridiculously
simple
but backed
up by
some impressive
philosophical and scientific
data).
His axiom: Know what he
calls your “signature strengths”
and use these
strengths as
often as possible throughout
your daily
life.
Sound simple?
It is in theory.
Tragically, most people
don’t
take the time to figure
out what they
are and
even fewer actually
consciously
build
their lives
around
them.
So, what are your greatest
strengths? Are you creating
a life around
them? We’ll
check out
some more theory
and walk
through
some assessments
and
exercises to
get you knowing thyself
more than ever before.
“The unexamined
life is not
worth living.”
Socrates, 5th century BCE
Greek philosopher
“Life is growth. If we
stop growing, technically
and
spiritually, we are as
good as dead.”
Morihei Ueshiba, 20th century
philosopher-martial artist
The
Goals Principle
Alright, so you’ve assumed
control of your life, you’re
creating
a vision of
your
ideal self and
you’re focusing
on gaining
greater self-awareness.
Now what?
Now, it’s time to bring
the theory down to reality.
It’s
time to
set goals. Odds
are
you don’t have
absolute clarity
on exactly
who you
are and what
you want
in your life. Welcome to
the club. Something like
less than 5% of
the US population
actually sets
written goals.
That doesn’t mean you’re
off the hook. It means
you need
to get
to work. Start
by setting
goals.
Your
goal can
be as “simple”
as getting
out of
bed tomorrow
morning when your alarm
goes off—and before you hit snooze
three
times!! (why is that so
hard sometimes?!?) or it
can be
more complex, like
getting in shape,
losing 10 pounds and running
a 5k in four months.
The bottom line is clear:
you need goals. I’ll tell
you more
about
why goals are
so grand
and also teach
you
a thing or
two about
how to actually
set
goals and all that good
stuff. For now, let’s assume
you have goals…now
it’s
time for
action…
“Good thoughts
are no better than good
dreams,
unless
they be
executed!”
Ralph Waldo Emerson, 19th
century American philosopher
The Action
Principle
What’s the use of having
absolute clarity of who
you are and
what you want if
you lack the
power
to take
action? It’s time
to follow
the
advice of
another prominent Greek
entity, Nike, and “Just
do it.”
Unfortunately, it’s not
good enough to just do
it. You
have to get
in the habit
of just
doing
it impeccably.
Impecc-a-what? Impeccably.
The word
literally means
“without sin.”
And, that’s what you need
to do. You need to do your
best.
Every
single moment—from putting
your
socks
in the hamper
to putting
a dish straight
into the dishwasher.
Trust me. When you get
in the habit of doing every
little
thing to
the best
of your ability,
you will
do some amazing
things.
That’s action. It’s powerful.
In fact, there’s nothing
more powerful
than
having the ability
to do what
you need to do
when you need
to do it. That’s
probably
why one of my heroes, Leonardo
da Vinci, said that “One
can have no
smaller
or greater mastery
than
mastery of
oneself.”
Imagine having absolute
self-mastery aligned with
absolute clarity
of vision of what
you want to
manifest. If
you’re willing to
dream big enough,
it’s
the stuff legend is made
of.
“Be not afraid of going
slowly but only afraid
of standing
still.”
Chinese Proverb
Energy:
“The capacity for work
or vigorous
activity;
vigor; power.”
American Heritage Dictionary
The Energy Principle
It’s hard to take consistent
impeccable action if you
don’t have that much
energy. I like
to say that
you’re
going
to have a hard
time reaching
your
potential if
you have a hard time getting
out of bed in the morning.
Now, optimizing our health
isn’t rocket science. We
all know what
we should
be doing (at least
90% of it!)
but
tragically
few of
us actually
do it.
Use your
impeccability from above
to master the fundamentals
of nutrition
and exercise. Build habits
that will last you
a lifetime
and then put this
part of your
life on autopilot.
“The
best way
to make
a fire with two sticks
is to make sure one of
them
is a
match.”
Will Rogers, 20th century
cowboy and actor
“God turns
you from
one feeling
to another and
teaches by means
of opposites,
so that you will have two
wings to fly, not one.”
Rumi, 14th century Sufi
mystic
The Wisdom Principle
Alright, now you’ve got
some momentum: you’ve
taken control,
got some
more self-awareness and
a game plan that you’re
executing.
Whatever you do, don’t
freak out the first time
(or the
hundredth time)
you drop the
ball. Of
course you’re going
to screw
up. If you don’t,
then something’s
wrong! Don’t view every
challenge as a life or
death
event. View every situation
as another opportunity
to learn, another
opportunity
to grow.
Success and
failure
are much less important
than what you’re learning.
Life is our classroom.
That guy cutting you
off and honking
on
the way to
work? He’s
just another
teacher—teaching
you how to
remain
cool when
others
are stressed
out. Thank him for the
lesson. Move on. Don’t get caught
up in his issues.
And, you’ve gotta spend
some time learning. Turn
off the
TV for an
hour every night
and open a
book or open
a journal.
Learn.
Write. Think.
“Everything in the universe
is a pitcher brimming
with wisdom
and
beauty.”
Rumi, 14th century Sufi
mystic
“Each and every
master, regardless
of the
era or
place, heard
the call and
attained harmony
with heaven and
earth.
There are
many paths to Mount Fuji,
but there is only one
summit—love.”
Morihei Ueshiba, 20th
century philosopher-martial
artist
The
Love Principle
Alright, so we’re well
on our way to thinking
and living
Areté. Good
work.
We’ve got to remember
one very important thing:
none
of this
is anything without
love. It starts
with
loving ourselves.
To the
extent that
we can realize that
we’re not perfect and
we never will be, we
can forgive
ourselves
for our faults and have
a little (perhaps even
a lot?)
more
compassion for everyone
else around
us who is struggling with
the same challenges.
We also need to remember
to look outside of ourselves
and
think
about how we
can create a life that
allows us to
share our
gifts with the
world.
Remember Seligman? The
guy who wrote Authentic
Happiness?
Well,
he told
us that if we
want a happy life we
need to know our
strengths and use
them as
often as
possible in our daily
lives. We’ll be more
happy if
we can do that.
But, if we want
to have a
truly meaningful
life,
we need
to use
our
strengths
as often as
possible, and do so for
something greater than
ourselves.
We need to give back
to the world. We’ve gotta
show the
love.
“It’s
not enough
to have lived.
We should
be determined
to
live for something.
May I suggest
that it be creating joy
for others, sharing what
we have
for the betterment of personkind,
bringing hope to the lost
and love to the lonely.”
Leo Buscaglia, 20th century
Dr. of Love
“Anything
may be betrayed,
anyone
may be forgiven.
But not those
who lack
the courage
of their own greatness…It
does
not matter that only
a few in each generation
will grasp
and
achieve
the full reality of man’s proper
stature—and
the rest
will betray
it. It is
those few
that move the world and
give life its meaning—and
it is
those few
that I
have always sought
to address. The rest
are no
concern of mine; it
is not
me or “The
Fountainhead” that they
will betray: it is their
own
souls.”
Ayn Rand, 20th century
Objectivist philosopher
The
Courage Principle
Living with Areté starts
and ends and is driven
every moment
by courage—by
our willingness
to grow, to
evolve and to
challenge ourselves to
be who we are capable
of being, moment by moment
by moment.
Nothing is more important
and nothing is more challenging.
Society does anything
but support our growth,
our
individuality and our
greatness. We’re
told from
the day we’re born
that we need to
behave a certain way,
wear the right clothes,
drive
the right cars, live
in big houses in the
right neighborhood,
get the right education and the impressive job
and beautiful
spouse
and 2.2
kids and all that
other
nonsense. It’s
enough to drive
anyone insane.
You have to be willing
to jump from the normal
and
risk looking
like
an idiot
as you grow.
As Maslow
says, “You
will either
step forward
into growth
or
you will step back into
safety.”
Which way are you headed?
“You’re packing a suitcase
for a place
none of us has
been.
A place that has to be
believed to be seen.”
U2, 21st century rockin’
band
Now that we’ve covered
some
of the
high level
stuff, how
about some tips
on how to
apply these
principles
to
our day-to-day
lives?
The Attitude Principle
• Smile. Isn’t that nice?
It’s amazing what a
smile can do.
I once read
about a study
where depressed
people were split
into
two groups—one
group
looked
into a mirror and smiled
for 30 minutes a day
for 30 days.
That’s it. Just
looked at themselves and
smiled. The other group
didn’t. At the end of the
study, the smilers were
significantly more happy
than
the other
group.
Cool,
eh?
Lesson: smile. Now.
Tickle tickle. Gimme
a little
smile, will ya?!?
There ya go!
That wasn’t so
hard now was
it? :)
• Say Yes! Quick exercise:
Take a moment and say
“No!” out loud
right
now. Say
it. Seriously.
“No!”
Say it
again. “No!”
Again.
“No. No.
No. No. No.”
Thank you. Alright.
So, how do you feel?
Now, say “Yes!” “Yes!”
“Yes! Yes! Yes! Yes!
Yes!”
Do you notice a slight
difference?!? When
you say “No” do you
feel yourself almost
shutting
down,
collapsing in? How
about
when you
say “Yes!” Do
you almost feel
your whole body and
spirit
uplifting?
Amazing, isn’t it?
Lesson: Say “Yes!”
more today.
Go for it.
Live a little.
• Act “As If.” Who
do you want to be?
What’s
your
ideal? Are
you enlightened?
Are you
wealthy? Are
you in perfect
physical
shape?
Whatever it is, get
that image. Then, on
a moment-to-moment
basis, ACT
“AS IF” you
already
were that person...what
would the enlightened
being
that
you are
do in this moment of
tension? Perhaps breathe
in, breathe
out, gain perspective
and maintain equanimity.
Good.
Then act like
that enlightened
person
NOW.
How about that perfectly
healthy person that
you imagine. Good.
What would
(s)he do right
now? What
would they
eat? How often
would they
exercise? Perfect.
That’s what you do
now.
Act as if. Moment to
moment to moment. And,
sooner
than you
think you won’t
be acting
anymore. How
amazingly cool is
that?
The Vision Principle
• Dream. In the words
of one of my favorite
teachers,
James
Allen:
“The greatest achievement
was at first and
for a time a dream.
The
oak sleeps
in the
acorn, the bird
waits
in the
egg, and
in the highest
vision
of the
soul a waking angel
stirs. Dreams are
the
seedlings of realities.”
So, what are you
dreaming of today?
• Know What You Want.
What’s your intention?
What do
you want in
your life? What
do you want in this
moment?
Quick tip: You’re
a LOT more likely
to
get it
if you know
what “it”
is.
So what is it?
• Regain Your Balance.
Here’s an exercise
I often use to
capture the importance
of having
a clear
intention to regain
our balance:
Stand up. Put your
arms straight out.
Make sure
you’re in
an area that’s
big enough
so you can
spin around.
Alright. Now,
spin. Give
yourself
a good 5-10-15
spins. Whatever
it takes to get
you
a little off-balance.
Alright.
Now once
you get
there, I want you to
stop spinning. Then,
I want you to
do two different
things:
First, I want you
to put your hands
together
like
you’re
praying and
stare at your
fingertips—it brings
you back to balance
AMAZINGLY quickly.
Then,
I want
you to quit staring
at your fingertips
and instead
I
want you to look
all around you—up, down, far
away, to
the right,
to
the left…just
look
everywhere.
Notice
how that makes you feel.
If you’re like me, it probably
makes you
nauseous.
For me, this is
a perfect metaphor
for having
a clear intention
in our life.
When things
get stressful
(i.e., we’re “spun
around”), we have
a couple of
options: we can
look
all around us to
get a sense
of perspective
(which
usually
leads to more confusion/nausea);
or, we can focus on what
we know to be
true, what our intention
in life is, what the
purpose of that experience
is, etc.—that clarity brings
us back
to balance
as quickly as staring at
our fingertips.
So, the next time
you’re spinning—have
a clear
intention: know
that your highest
intention
is to grow as a
more enlightened,
loving, balanced,
growth-oriented
human
being (or whatever
it is for you)
and come back
to that to regain
your balance.
Try it out! Methinks
you’ll dig it.
The Self-Awareness
Principle
• Quit Worrying
About What Others
Think. That’s a
big one. Really
big. Really,
really, really
big.
First of all, let’s
be clear about
one thing:
You’re worried
about
what someone
else thinks
of you,
right? OK. Now,
while you’re doing
that,
what do you
think they are
worried about?
Hah. Exactly. They’re
worried about what
you think of
them. But you’re
so busy
worrying about
what they think
of you
that you’re
not even
spending much time
thinking about
them.
(You follow that?
:)
To be honest, whether
or not that’s true
all the
time is
irrelevant (although
I do think it’s
true most of
the time).
In any case,
if you’re going
to live your life
dependent on
the good
opinion of others
for your happiness
then,
uh, I’ll
put it to you
bluntly:
You’re
screwed.
There’s NO way
you can please
everyone
all the
time. Even
someone who
wins an election
by a
landslide still
had 30 or 40% of
the people who
disagreed
with
her.
Further, and I’d
say much, much,
much more
importantly,
by worrying
about
what other
people think of
you and working
hard to try to
please
them, you’re losing
the essence of
who you are—you’re
expressing
such
a small fraction
of who you truly
are. That’s not cool.
So, quit
worrying about
what other
people
think of
you. Pretty please.
• Be Authentic.
Authenticity. Did
you know that
the word “authentic”
literally
means
to be your
own author.
Be
you. Don’t pretend
to be anything
else. Pretty please.
(One of my friends
and favorite teachers,
Dan
Millman, taught
me that—along
with a lot of
other stuff
woven through here.
If you
aren’t familiar
with Dan’s work,
you can check him
out at www.danmillman.com and
I recommend you
start with Way
of the Peaceful
Warrior (which will
be released as a movie
starring Nick Nolte
in June ‘06) and then go
from there! Thanks, Dan!)
• Quit Comparing
Yourself to Others.
It’s really
a pointless
exercise.
It automatically
creates
a strained
relationship
with whomever
you’re comparing
yourself—you’ve
either gotta be
superior
or inferior to
them, right? Neither
is a
good basis for
a loving
relationship.
If you need to
do any comparison
at
all—do
it with your
potential self!
In the words
of William
Faulkner,
“Don’t
bother just
to be better than
your
contemporaries
or predecessors.
Try to be better
than yourself.”
• Follow Your Bliss.
Those three words
capture the
message of
Joseph Campbell—the
amazing
mythology guru
and mentor to George
Lucas
who based much
of
Star Wars on the
classic
archetypal journeys
Campbell discovered.
It’s rather simple.
Three words: 1.
Follow. 2.
Your. 3. Bliss.
Key words: “bliss”
and “your.” Not
someone else’s
idea of
your bliss.
Not what you
think should
be your bliss.
Not
what you
think would
impress the
crowd or
appease the family.
YOUR bliss. What
truly gets
you giddy.
Oh yah, “follow”
is kinda important
as
well. Get
out there and
follow your bliss!
(Pretty
please.
Thank
you.)
The Goals Principle
• Step Forward.
Abraham Maslow
broke it down
for us in simple
terms. He
told us
that in
any given
moment
you
have two options:
you can
step forward
into
growth or you
can step back into
safety. Pretty simple,
really.
Become aware
of your behavior.
Become aware
of the decisions
you
are
making every
moment of your
life—the decision
to speak authentically
(step
forward into
growth) or to
say
what you think
you should say
(back
into safety).
Pay attention
to your decision
to either
go out for
the run you promised
yourself or to
make
up an
excuse as
to why you
just
can’t do it today.
Become AWARE.
Become conscious
of who
you are, the
decisions you’re
making,
how you’re
expressing
yourself
and what
you’re actually
doing. Your destiny
is shaped
by your moment
to moment
decisions. Choose
wisely. Step
Forward.
• Push Yourself.
In the words
of William James,
the 19th
century US philosopher
and psychologist,
“You
have enormous
untapped
power you’ll
probably never
tap, because
most
people
never run far
enough on their
first
wind
to ever find
they
have a second.”
How bout we tap
that power? The
way to
do it? Push
yourself a
little harder.
Let’s take a
quick look
at the “Training
Effect”—a concept
used to build
your body—and
see how it applies
to our
lives.
The same principle
that applies
to building muscles
in the
gym applies
to building
excellence in
our lives: In
order
to grow,
we must consistently
push ourselves
just a little
bit past our
current
comfort
zone. In
exercise physiology
parlance, this is called the Training
Effect.
The principles involved?
Overload: You
must “overload”
your
body with more
stress
than it can
currently handle.
(Not too much
as this
may lead to
injury, but enough
so you’re
out of your current
comfort zone.)
Overcompensation:
Your body is
smart. It doesn’t
like
to get
its butt kicked.
So,
what does
it do? It overcompensates
and
repairs
itself
so that next
time it’s stronger–and
capable of withstanding
the level of stress you put on
it previously.
The training
effect explains
how muscles
grow, how
your heart is
trained to
beat more efficiently,
and
how your
lungs are
trained to distribute
oxygen more efficiently.
It’s also the
same principle
that
dictates growth
in other aspects
of our lives: from our ability
to give
presentations
at work
to
our ability
to
have challenging
conversations with our
significant other at home.
Go out and “train.”
Push yourself
a little further
today...
• Fill Your Water
Pot and Hit the
Rock. Every
great
teacher
will
advise you
to build habits
and to
consistently
train yourself
to do
your best.
The Buddha says
it so beautifully
when
he reminds
us that:
“Little by little
a person
becomes
evil, as a
water pot
is filled by
drops of water...
Little
by little a person
becomes good,
as a water pot
is filled by
drops
of water.”
I think the stonecutter
is another perfect
metaphor for
the process of
growing
into
our full potential.
You may
have
heard the story:
A stonecutter
hits a rock with
his
hammer. The stone
splits.
The casual
observer
sees this and
thinks,
“Wow. That guy
is really strong.
I can’t
believe he
broke that huge
rock
with a single
blow!”
The reality (obviously)
is that the stonecutter
didn’t
break
it in a
single blow—he’d
been hammering
away at that
rock for a long
time.
Many,
many
blows went into
the rock before
it
finally split.
Most people see
someone who has
achieved
some level of
success--whether
it’s
enlightenment
or celebrity
status
or financial
wealth--and think,
“Wow, they
sure must be
lucky.”
Obviously, the
stonecutter isn’t
strong enough
to break a rock
in one blow
and no one is
“lucky” enough
to
reach any
level
of excellence
without an
equally
diligent and
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